Talking about things that I know
I haven’t updated this thing in forever, and up until recently I had debated signing up for a life in a convent (not really I am just being dramatic) and by some weird force of nature I ended up chatting up/hanging out with/making out with this man on Friday, who I thought was so cute and in all honesty I didn’t think he was trying to deal with me at all. But I started chatting him up and trying to crack jokes and as it turns out, he was all about it.
Then today I was thinking about the year and a half I was trying to use the internet to meet someone, and how I got dissapointed and mad that I wasted my money when it didn’t happen. I can say that at least in my case the internet is a waste of time. My face is cuter in person, my witty banter is wittier in person and I can express myself in “real life” way better than I ever could trying to use 2 paragraphs on a dating site. All that to say this….save your money. Go out, be friendly and start talking to people. It gets you places.
I am not saying going to bars and clubs is the best way to meet someone (that is another post in and of itself)if you are trying to find something long term but it is for sure a good way to get some confidence and give your self-esteem a boost, and get used to putting yourself out there.
