I think I need to change the name of this blog.
I-Date isn’t that accurate.
its more like sans date, and that’s okay.
so far in 2010 the “I can’t be bothered” philosophy has worked out well. The minute I decided that I wasn’t going to be bothered/sad about being single/realizing it wasn’t that serious to begin with, the better I felt. Thinking positively has helped me leaps and bounds people. This idea that I am complete on my own has revolutionized me, I feel a lot more sure of myself and I have been making an effort to enjoy myself as much as I can.
setting realistic expectations for myself, not comparing myself to others, and not running around on a “man hunt” or trying to set “deadlines” for myself has greatly helped my little psyche so far. I hope the second month of 2010 goes as well.
